During the COVID lockdown, online dating has increased and exchanges have become more meaningful. Location matters less.<\/em><\/p>\n Jessie has a beautiful personality and sparkling eyes. While single and open to dating already before the lockdown, her social life often fell victim to a grueling work schedule and frequent travel. She was also taking care of extended family living across the country. There was a constant silent underlying disappointment emanating from these constraints, which were as real as they were hard to avoid. Dating was a bittersweet experience for Jessie, who felt that it was easy to meet people but hard to find meaningful relationships.<\/span><\/p>\n Along came Corona and the lockdown. One day, travel was out; the next, the commute was off. And Jessie\u2019s employer extended to every employee the flexibility of daily working hours that was soon becoming a bare necessity for working parents.<\/p>\n When I chatted to her last, Jessie confided that dating under Corona had developed into an interesting direction. It was frustrating not being able to meet anyone in person. But you ended up having more and better conversations with the people you already knew. Dating has not stopped. While face to face meetings disappear, online and phone interactions take over.<\/p>\n The figures back this up. On the 4th<\/sup> of April, the\u00a0OKCupid blog<\/a> blog recorded \u201cAll over the world, matches on OkCupid have increased 10% \u2014 and conversations have increased over 20%! \u2014 as singles turn to online dating for connection. – In response to the new question \u201cHow do you plan on dating during this time of coronavirus?\u201d a whopping 94% of respondents said they\u2019ll continue to date, albeit virtually.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n And the conversations intensify. Jessie found that as there are fewer distractions, you actually focus on your date. You listen. You get to know each other much better than you would have if meeting face-to-face all the time.<\/p>\n OKCupid agrees. \u201cVirtual dating is ushering in a new era of \u201cslow dating\u201d that\u2019s been welcomed by singles.\u00a0(..). – With virtual dating, the focus lands on the quality of conversations and time spent together, making it easier to figure out whether the person you\u2019re talking to is compatible with whatever you\u2019re looking for<\/strong>. – In just the past two weeks,\u00a0there\u2019s been a 5% increase in OkCupid users looking for long-term relationships and a 20% decrease in users looking for hookups<\/strong>.\u201d<\/p>\n This lets many (especially female) singles breathe a sigh of relief. I literally see shoulders untense for many of my single friends. The last pressure point that Jessie saw fall was geography. If there was never strictly a need to be in the same city as your date, there definitely isn\u2019t now.<\/p>\n She is not alone. \u201cWomen have also been more likely to expand their preferred location to \u201canywhere\u201d so they can connect across borders. And those who do, have 5% more conversations than those who don\u2019t.<\/strong><\/p>\n What if ironically, confinement\u2019s limitations lead to a wider global reach in dating?<\/p>\n <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" During the COVID lockdown, online dating has increased and exchanges have become more meaningful. Location matters less. Jessie has a beautiful personality and sparkling eyes. While single and open to dating already before the lockdown, her social life often fell … Continue reading